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Morning Fuel – Ecclesiastes 3:16-17 – The Problem of Injustice

We would all agree that this world can be horribly unfair. People die and suffer. Evil seems to rule. Just a quick look at the news shows us that all around the world there are unjust things happening. Solomon made that same observation thousands of years ago. In Ecclesiastes 3:16, he said, “Moreover, I saw under the sun that in the place of justice, even there was wickedness, and in the place of righteousness, even there was wickedness.” Solomon was…

I Minister In The Busyness, But I Refuel In The Margin

Everyone is different, so I do not want to make a proclamation of, “this is how you should live!” But I do see a trend that worries me. Many people pack their lives with so many activities that they lose any margin. And when they lose margin, they lose an important opportunity to refuel. I define margin as “space to allow your body and mind an opportunity to rest, grow, and think.” It is the opposite of rushing and busyness.…

Morning Fuel – Ecclesiastes 4:4 – One Danger of Community

In Ecclesiastes 4, Solomon has been talking about the benefits of community. How two are stronger than one. How we can help each other. Sadly, we all know that there are some difficulties to community as well. Solomon gives one of those in v. 4. He writes, “Then I saw that all toil and all skill in work come from a man’s envy of his neighbor. This also is vanity and a striving after wind.” So Solomon is pointing out…

Morning Fuel – Ecclesiastes 4:7-8 – Independence

Solomon says in Ecclesiastes 4:7-8: 7 Again, I saw vanity under the sun: 8 one person who has no other, either son or brother, yet there is no end to all his toil, and his eyes are never satisfied with riches, so that he never asks, “For whom am I toiling and depriving myself of pleasure?” This also is vanity and an unhappy business. In these verses Solomon talks about someone who has no one. The person has worked hard…

Purity Matters

In the day and age we live in, it is easy to fall into the trap of thinking it is alright to do a little sin. Many have a line that they think, “As long as I don’t cross THIS, I am fine.” So they engage in activity that the Bible considers sin and they justify it, thinking, “as long as I am a good person, I am fine.” Or, “As long as I do not pass this particular line,…

Ask The Pastor: What does Jesus mean when he says, “when two or more are gathered in my name?”

Question: So, in Matthew 18:20 when it says “For where two or three gather in my name, there I am in the midst of them.” I’ve always just accepted that and been encouraged by that. But, I was just pondering over it and thought- but wait- He is with me when I am by myself too. So what is the difference? Is this differentiating between persons of the trinity? Answer: As you already pointed out, Matthew 18:20 says, “For where…

I’m Struggling Spiritually… What Should I Do?

Someone recently wrote me and told me they were struggling with some things in their life and consequently were struggling spiritually. The person will remain anonymous, but I wanted to share my response, with a few details made more generic. If you are struggling spiritually, here is some good basic advice to get you in the right direction. — Dear Anonymous, I am really sorry that you are having a tough time right now. I don’t have any dramatic words…

Praying For Your Spouse and Marriage

Last year I wrote about how we can be praying for our children. My wife and I refer back to that post on a daily basis and use it as a blueprint for praying for our kids each night before we go to bed. I highly recommend you use it! Today I want to give some suggestions on how we can be praying for our spouse. Most of these suggestions come from the book by Stephen and Alex Kendrick, titled,…

Finding Freedom From Drugs

Here are a few questions to ask as you start to find freedom from drug addiction: 1) Do you know Jesus? True change – heart change – will never happen unless Jesus is the Lord of your life. If you have never turned to him, then you are missing out on the assurance of heaven, the empowerment of the Holy Spirit in your life, and God working in your life to turn you into a new person. I encourage you…

Finding Freedom From Porn

Finding freedom from porn involves a “two-pronged approach.” Or, in food terms, it’s like an Oreo cookie because it has two sides. The first side is to proactively fight the addiction. In terms of pornography, this involves you figuring out the “temptation points” in your life and working to get rid of them. Whatever areas are sources for temptation need to be exterminated, or at the very least, minimized. For example, many people struggle with internet pornography on their phone.…

Here’s Why Abortion Clinics Are Shutting Down

I was very interested to read an article this week that was written by someone who is not part of the pro-life movement. Titled, “Indie Abortion Clinics Are Shutting Down All Over the Country,” Carter Sherman writes about how the last eight years have been bad for the abortion industry. “In 2012, there were 510 open independent clinics, the report found. By November 2020, that number had shrunk to 337. This year alone [2020], 14 independent clinics closed or stopped…

Some of My Favorite Books I Read In 2020

Since 2012 I have been keeping a list of all the books that I read. This allows me to look back on the year and see how my reading has gone as well as to catch any patterns than may need to change. For example, I love reading fiction, but I benefit more from reading non-fiction. So while I allow myself to enjoy fiction, I also make sure that I am reading a similar amount of non-fiction. I am not…